Be Aware
I focus a lot on my kids at SimpleFather.com, and rightly so since this is after all, a parenting blog. But I'd like to step back, take a few minutes and say be aware.
I know that a new year often signals fresh starts, new beginnings, and wiping the slate clean. However, the fact of the matter is for many, a new year means just another year of heartache, financial troubles, and one year closer to the kids moving out.
So be aware of those around you. If your life couldn't be better, I guarantee there is someone around who needs a little help. Do something significant for them, other than telling them that it'll all be okay.
If your life blows right now, don't be afraid to ask for help. If those around you are truly your friends, they would be honored to help.
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My thing is that I've never been able to ask for help. It stems from being shot down when younger. Whether it from parents, siblings, friends. et al.
I learned to just do everything myself. I brought that into my marriage and being a father. it sucks because i'll overwhelm myself with everything.
it's a slow process but I'm working on getting over it.
I'm the same way. I almost refuse to ask for help. But from the other side, I've known people who need help, but am not quite how to help them.
I've also found that when you ask for help, many times the person feels blessed that you find them a good enough friend and that you think they have something to offer.
I'm the same way Eric, I am also a perfectionist so I like to do everything myself right the first time. A few premature grey hairs and a couple lessons learned has taught me to loosen the strings a bit.
I think it's in our nature as guys. I'm still learning my lessons. Hopefully soon I'll loosen the strings a bit more.
This is a time of year when those things that bring you down tend to be exacerbated. Good message to check up on those who you care about, family and friends. So, everything good with you? -Jason
Yeah, things with me are good. Thankfully it wasn't a cry for help... It just seems that there are a lot of people around me going through a lot of different things and I've come to the realization that it's time to be more like a family, than just a casual friend.
Perfect sentiment, man! You're right, lot's of people need a little encouragement these days. It would be good for all of us to remember our neighbors and those around us.
Indeed. Sometimes I get so wrapped up in my little world I forget about the people around me.
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